Hi Ohai, Solveig,
I'm really not a workplace person, and frankly Solveig, your suggested workplace environment scares me, so I'm not the person to give advice about this, but I thought I'd throw in a sports metaphor.
This grading on a curve is not done company wide, I assume. That is, if the company is at all big, it is probably divided to certain groups. Maybe you're the manager of one group but there are many such groups, or teams shall we call them.
What you need to convince them is that even if they are graded on a curve inside the team, that the teams are also graded on a curve, and to be the lower end of a winning team is better than the upper end of a losing one. Or mostly so. (I'm thinking of a basketball league).
Now as long as they feel that the major ranking is the group and the personal ranking is of second order, you're relatively safe.
There is a danger to this though. If you have a star player, and they feel the team is a losing one, they might want a trade so they can be on a winning team. That is, if you are not a sports fan, they will ask to be moved to a different team because of personal issues, or something like that. Here is where you need to convince them that first it is not completely team grade and only then personal grade, but that the top person can still be graded tops no matter which team they're on. And moreover, that a great player on a bad team can earn even more because they are more important to the team, blah blah blah. Second, to turn to their mentoring feelings and suggest how they can help the other people by being a good influence etc.
So my answer is essentially, as long as it is a big enough company, to move the question from your own team to a league issue.
Hope this helps.