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I Like Me So Much Better When I Travel
Travel Delia is way cooler than home Delia–sorry for those of you who only see home delia!  When I’m away, I think critically, but I’m also more laid back about obstacles and delays.  I’m thrilled to sit in a crowded train station on a hot Egyptian night, people watching, reading and soaking it all in.  At home?  I look like one of those Bostonians your mom told you about, the Massholes you shouldn’t bother. 

But every day you can litterally wake up and be someone new.  Every person you meet is the opportunity to make the changes you’ve been thinking about, or maybe even implementing, the ones your old friends don’t notice because their image of you is trapped in resin like a mosquito.  Who Says I can’t be Travel Delia every day?

When I’m away I…



  • read or look out the window on pretty much every form of transportation, instead of always listening to my ipod
  • write way more
  • don’t worry about hygeine
  • am far more likely to talk to a stranger
  • am barefoot!
  • am open to hearing new opinions
  • am more of a listener (but, let’s face it, still a pretty big talker…)
  • randomly help strangers and travelling companions alike
  • am more mindful of how often I speak, when I interupt, and how loud I am
  • wander
  • practice yoga most days
  • wake up early
  • fly solo
  • arrive on time almost everywhere, unless it really is beyond my control (see: Benin)
  • go to all kinds of cultural festivals and museums
  • take notes.  All the time.  And I love it. 
  • am thankful every time I have AC, halfway-decent food and a bed without bedbugs (regular bugs don’t bother me)
  • am not at all scared of bugs
  • dance more; smile more; hum to myself
  • take lots of pictures of my friends
  • play sports
  • don’t worry so much about what I’m wearing, since my choices are limited
  • pay more attention
  • take better care of myself
  • challenge myself
  • let myself fail
  • write thank you notes
  • walk everywhere
  • play with children and strangers
  • talk to every kid I meet

This year I’m doing something different: I’m staying home, and I’m loving it.  And I’ve been inspired by my travels and by Thoreau to apply my travel mindset to home–the local, the domestic, the unnoticed and the seemingly-banal.  Because that’s what the point of this blog is: to think critically, live happily, examine everything and go forth with equal parts whimsy and thoughtful care.  After all, the people, language, culture and politics of Massachusetts and America at large are no less interesting or worthy than those on all the other continents, in all the other states. 

Are you different when you get into a new environment?  How and why?  Does it have to be far away, or is it just the presence of new people?
Besides going barefoot and talking to every kid you meet, all the other items of your list, Delia, sound great for daily activity.
I think the real challenge is to have this attitude in your daily life, both with your old friends and new ones. Will have to think more about this.

Hugh had a great post about this in the allure of wilderness discussion.
Change opens us up.  We see from a different angle.  It's easier to do it if you get out of the familiar.
Leaving home,seeing the larger picture and then trying not to lose it when you get back.
The art of travel is to leave familiar mindsets behind as well and absorb the new.  Mind expansion.
Give your brain and attitude a quarter turn and hang onto a bit of that when you're back in town just paying the rent.

If travel isn't possible libraries are good.
Rearrange the furniture (in your mind as well as in your home) , hang a new picture (a beautiful one that you love).
Travel is available in different forms.  Anything that gives your mind a good shake and airing is good.
It's rejuvenating, refreshing, illuminating if we let it be.  And a little scary but you have to be in the accepting business to learn anything.
You have to be willing to drink the water (judiciously), eat the armadillo (metaphorically) and use that toilet. 
Delia reading your post really brightened my mood :) – and I spent half an hour staring out of the window despite the 100 pages of stochastic calculus awaiting my attention.

My reply might be somewhat incoherent and will most likely degenerate into a stream of consciousness.

Well I noticed the things you listed not only while traveling but also when having a real break. To me a break is real when there are no immediate responsibilities stalking me. Unfortunately I am not the type of person who can easily switch from 100% workaholic to complete relaxation. When I stay at home I will relax for 1 to 2 days and then start working again – I know it sounds horrible but I find fulfillment in what I do and thus it does not weigh me down that much.

The reason most people experience a readiness to engage in something new when traveling derives in many cases from the awareness of being out of the sight of those who might judge or condemn you. When I travel I am not afraid to hit on a woman and be rejected whereas at home I am quite aware of the judging eyes of both my male and my female acquaintances and perhaps even some of my closer friends - Failing has never been known for promoting one’s standing within any kind of social environment.  “Let myself fail” – “Challenge myself” are actually two sides of the same coin. Openly committing oneself to a challenge inevitably entails a commitment to a possible failure.

What is more due to our genes we are automatically more alert in an unfamiliar environment (an essential survival skill) We see, smell, feel and experience more. At the same time travelling can also be very tiring depending on the environment – for being alert all the time and also digesting all the stimuli takes its toll. This is also why one is often happy to arrive back home (if home is at least a decently agreeable place). I also know people who travel to escape their problems. Those do not like getting back home at all.
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