Great question Dana,
I'll respond to Eva and Catherine but first,
Dana, I would essentially re-say what I said in the allure of wilderness discussion,
post, only replacing Wilderness for whatever kind of life you want: (OOPS, I just noticed you already linked to my post Catherine - Thanks!)
"Dear Ellen, I can feel your desire for the wilderness, and I think many
of us find Walden’s supposed escape to live in the mountains at least
partially
alluring. But it is also too literal an understanding of wilderness.
Wilderness
is also a state of mind. The
differences between dreaming of it and living in it are small, as long
as you
can create it inside your real world. The sense of freedom, openness,
space, isolation,
and motion which are so connected with wilderness can be felt inside the
city,
inside a huge crowd, and even sitting in a bustling
cafes.
This separation between life in the city and the wilderness
is a also a dangerous one as you tend to accept the rules of the city
while in
it, and though some rules (like don’t walk naked or piss on the street)
should
probably be observed, your mind should have a freedom to it, and open up
a
vastness for you. You should be able to be a barbarian even inside the
city, at
least from a mental point of view.
Living a period in California with its beautiful openness,
and time in Paris where you can rarely see two meters ahead without some
wall
blocking your view, they are very different experiences. It’s important
to
remind the mind that there are those vast wild areas, and a place from
where
you can see miles and miles and miles ahead; to see valleys, mountains
and the
sea. It’s important to remind oneself of that, but then to implement it
also
when living in the city and among people."
Eva, it's true that there is always "good to be found and good to be had" but being inside the current you can't control what you get. That is, you will get some of their diseases too - they are contagious. But I a agree, what else is there to do.
Beautiful "quote" Catherine. I'm not sure such places exist anymore. Unless...hence why you linked to my post. It's funny following the same chain of thought.