Ok so I have been out of the dating game for awhile, I had a 3 year relationship and then a 2 year relationship not long after. I just moved back home from another state so I was trying to make some friends and met this guy online on myspace. I brought my sister the first time (on Wednesday) to make sure he was legit. I was intending on just making friends, but it kinda didn't happen like that. When we met I invited him to go to a bar with my sister and I two days later (friday). The next day he wanted to hang out, but I had plans so I suggested hanging out before the bar on friday. We watched a movie on his bed just sitting on opposite sides. I felt very comfortable talking with him. Normally, I am a shy person initially and get more outgoing when I get to know someone. However, I really felt a connection with this guy and I felt like I could talk about anything. Later after the bar he kissed me gnite (just a plain, simple kiss on the mouth). There were definitely some sparks at least I felt it. Then he wanted to hang out the next afternoon and I said I could come over later because I had plans. We were watching movies and things kinda went all the way. He started it, but when I stopped (I was thinking about if I wanted to) he asked me if I wanted to and I said yea. Normally I wouldn't have done that on a 3rd day hanging out, but I really felt a connection with him. He was very cuddly and kissy after and kissed me gnite when I decided I had to leave and told me to text him when I got home. When I text him he mentioned that he didn't expect that to happen on the 3rd day we hung out (neither did I). He did text message me asking what was up way later in the day (the day after, which was sunday) and he text messaged me monday saying " Haa so sex was on your mind when you first met me?" (I had made a comment on saturday that I had thought about it a little the 2nd day we hung out). I don't understand why he would have asked that, anybody have any idea? I responded "nah, the 2nd day and just for a tish." He didn't say anything on Tuesday. He was texting me a lot more before the sex happened, I mean now it's hardly at all now. I have been trying to give him space I have only spoken to him (he only text messages) when he has spoken to me and I never respond right away (I wait 30min or so). Anybody have any thoughts on this? Do you think I am getting the brush off or is he taking some space? Normally, this wouldn't bother me, but I really felt a connection with him and he didn't act like guys do when it is just sex. So, I feel like he was leading me on if that was all it was. Do you think he will ever ask me to hang out with him again? I feel like I am in HS again, but I really just don't know what to think about this and what to do.