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On the importance of patience
I thought I'd talk about patience, as many people don't have any. The topic started from basketball so it will also be a basketball rant about what's going on with the Boston Celtics.

I'll start with some background, and will later move to the more general topic. For those of you who don't know the Celtics got together 3 amazing but not so young players (Garnett, Pierce, Allen)  2 years ago and won a championship with them.


Last year one of them, Garnett, was injured and they lost. This year started very promising but quickly turned bad with many losses. Garnett doesn't seem to have completely healed from last year and perhaps never will, and Pierce got injured too and looks really bad. The team in general looks like they're about 90 years old barely managing to move, and being flown by by the young studs of competing teams. So goes appearance.
People are now calling to break up the big three, as they're called, and ship Ray Allen away for, well whomever, but preferably a young stud. The reason for Ray Allen to be shipped away and not the other two are less comprehenislbe. Mostly, for technical reasons even if Allen was a bad player they could get something for him (because he has an expiring contract) but this doesn't helps less when he's a good player. Pierce was a Celtic for a long time so is loved by the town though he carries the brunt of the fault for their troubles as he has returned to his egotistical self instead of team oriented this year (apparently a 2 year hiatus from that role was too much to bare for him). Garnett, well he is adored. Allen is constantly the underappreciated player so is the easiest to ship out. Sadly this is also a reason they can't get that much for him.

Now comes the part about patience. People say you play for a championship but the moment some problems appear, oh no, let's tear everything down and start anew. Let's build for a decade from now to maybe have a chance then for a championship.  If they ship Allen out the chance of winning a championship this year are quite slim. They exist, but are very slim. No, it's to build for a rosier future who knows when. What is patience then, to hold out now, or to be patient and look for the future, some might ask. Clearly impatience can be described as patience, but acting now is an impatient move.

There is a good chance Ray Allen will be shipped, and let me say clearly that that's simply idiotic. Probably. Allen is their best player, even if this year the constant question of whether he will actually remain a Celtic has been a distraction and he hasn't been shooting as well as usual. What are these people reacting to? They are reacting to the Celtics losing. Let me then give you a different description than above:
The Celtics are older that's true, and they had a lot of injuries, but they have been close and even led most of the games they are losing. The reason they are losing is that they simply don't care to win. You can see it on them, you can feel it, they just don't care to win these games, even the important ones. They are waiting for the playoffs where it will matter. Can you flip a switch and change at that time, I doubt it, but teams have known to have done that (Houston comes to mind). If they remain intact, when the time comes and they'll care about winning, they'll do better. Now, in the dog days of the season, they can't muster the energy to actually care about it. Is that a reason to break them up and give up on the chance for a championship?

The only reason then to ship Allen (and I'm being simplistic here not to drown you with details) is if you give up on the season and try to build for sometime in the future. You do this if you know Kevin Garnett will not heal from his knee problem. But if this is the case, no point in keeping Garnett and Pierce to a rebuilding project which will take a few years to be ready (and if anything Allen is the most fit to keep, for financial reasons).
Sadly, because of what I can only call stupidity, they seem to be preparing to ship him out of there.

People have no patience and the moment something goes bad they immediately run for the hills. It's sad to see, but it happens everywhere. In the How to do good science discussion the importance of maintaining your way even when problems arise comes up. Any serious work confronts a lot of setbacks and belief, belief in yourself and in your project, is the only way to achieve anything of significance. You need to trust yourself also when the going gets tough. Casement Rogers quotes Hemingway saying the definition of courage is 'grace under pressure.' Well, many people are not so courageous.

Sometimes though you have to cut your losses. In the  same good science discussion the problem of hitting a wall also appears.Sometimes one doesn't want to acknowledge problems, doesn't want to understand the need to change directions. But if you do see the need, don't be half-ass about it. In the case of the Celtics this means shipping the big three. If they do that they can create a formidable team which might contend again very soon. But they won't do that as this demands another kind of courage.
Sports teams are a good example for a lack of patience. The usual sports fan immediately wants to change everything the moment something goes bad - fire the coach! And the administration, even if they know better, feels the pressure to comply. Or, sometimes the administration is dumber than your average sports fan and they have no patience themselves.  On the other hand, take the Knicks example with Isiah Thomas which first of all shouldn't have been hired, and second should have been fired immediately as he was obviously an awful coach (obviously even before being hired). It's hard to know how patient to be and when.

To return to the main topic of patience, it reminded me of the topic of Thinking clearly when upset. Patience requires a calmness of thought even when you're in a foul mood and things are'nt going great.
Arthur, the problem with the Celtics is that Pierce seems to care more about competing with Allen than competing for a championship. After winning the 3-point competition he apparently said:
"“I would say I’m one of the best — I’ve always said this and I tell this to the guys on my team,” Pierce said. “I’ve always been known as a pure scorer, and I’ve always said if I just sat outside and shot 3s, and just really focused on that — coming off of screens and spot-up 3s — and shot six or seven 3s a game, I would probably be more known as one of the greatest shooters in NBA history."

That last line is obviously a jab at Allen, and I remember hearing him on espn or somewhere saying, after a game won by Allen at the last minute, how he told Allen that after himself Allen is one the best shooters in the game. It seemed odd to me at the time as why would he care to say that?

Rondo was quoted as saying that some players only care about themselves and not about winning, or something like that, and I bet he meant Pierce.
Don't get me wrong, Pierce is a great player, and Allen's equal, but he's also a very selfish player.

Oh, the topic was patience. In sports?
Told you so :-)
Patience. In case people don’t know, Boston beat Cleveland, the team everyone feared, to advance to the eastern conference finals. Nice!

Why don’t people ever get any credit? What did people think, that a year passed and all of a sudden these people lost their heart and ability to play? Yes they grew a bit older, but you don’t just lose it. But people never get any credit, and no one has patience to support them.

You would think that now that people saw the re-emergence of the Celtics they would be more patient, they wouldn’t be so quick to judge. You would think. But then Lebron James has one bad game and all of a sudden from the most magnificent player to ever play the game he’s a loser. All of a sudden he’s not up for the big games, some even asking whether he should get a max contract. One bad game and people forget your entire past. Yes, it was an important game, but it happens. No one remembers; no one has patience; no one gives you any credit. Comapre this to Kevin Garnet who afterwards when asked what he told James he said – Patience, I’ve been there myself (it took Garnett many many years to win a championship after almost always losing in the first round.)

(For the record, great defense makes everyone in the opposing team look bad, as bad defense makes everyone looks great. The Celtics played simply magnificent defense. It is not by accident that all of a sudden everyone the Celtics play against has played inexplicably bad. Everyone complains about all the players in Miami besides Wade, and everyone in Cleveland besides Lebron like they just didn’t appear. What an amazing coincidence.
Also, bad luck for Lebron, the other playoff series were over and the media had nothing to talk about but him.)
(I’ll make some more basketball comments in a new topic on the playoffs.)

If you want to do anything great, anything important, patience is crucial. Not to panic and immediately on the first sign of trouble pack things up. It’s hard to do things – at least in the sense that there will always be setbacks.

The Celtics have patience, and it's one of the main reason they win.
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