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The Danger and Potential of Cities
I love cities. Don't get me wrong. They are so multidimensional that you can at once exist in so many different realms. They are hotbeds much like the internet is and allow instant connection and gratification. They are logical markets for every sort of service and good and are the ideal playground for people watching.

But damn, unless you intermittently get out and look at your city from far away, they can be soul-eating super-monsters. It's been 6 months since I've had the opportunity to take leave of my concrete spider web for more than a day (and a lot of those days I'm just off to other city-webs) and it's recently been draining my energy and thoughts (not aided by a long span of crummy weather). Unfortunately there are times when it is just impossible to get out of life's treadmill due to work schedules or money, and right now it seems I'm lying directly under the weight from so many of those loads.

Luckily, my shoes always have the potential to be filled by a tourist, even in a place I've called home for so long. What's wonderful about cities is how they can still surprise you even after you've been a 'local' for what seems like a lifetime. I'm always going to be a tourist (though without the Hawaiian shirts and predilection for Hard Rock Cafes) as long as I recognize that my internal map isn't perfect. And it's in the times when you can't  get away that you must rely on your city even more, it's times like these you must find new spots and new neighborhoods to explore and come to know your city even closer.

Sometimes it's nice to be a tourist in your own city, even if only for a day. 
Dear Clark,
I really enjoyed your description of cities, and it's funny isn't it: it's very difficult to insistently maintain one's equilibrium in the midst of such a vortex. And who wants to insistently ignore all that wonderful stimulus? But if not things get very fuzzy: hard to say if the energy is coming from you or the city, if you're really the privileged observer taking it all in or simply playing a part in the spectacle.

Of course this advice about being able to see the place you live as a tourist is important on many levels.
As an aside, it's especially crucial about relationships...if one isn't careful then it's easy to fall into a routine with your partner where you are annoyed by the many small frictions of being together (not rolling up the toothpaste neatly...) rather than seeing the broad strokes which distinguish them as amazing. The happiest people are those who, from time to time, remember to see their partners with clear eyes, and remember why they fell in love with them.
Its interesting to see the exact opposite of my own view of cities.  I find them oppressive and unless you have somewhere specific to go - to a friend's house, to a shop or office or other place of work, or you can pay to sit in a coffee shop or pub, or pay to go to the theatre.  Sure you can walk by the riverside (in London at least) or in the park, but they are prescribed landscapes, designed by mankind.  Sure there are few things that are unprescribed, the flight of birds and the movement of the water.

Compare that to a walk in the countryside.  Free to sit anywhere, with non-prescribed events everywhere. Yes the fields are devised by mankind, but the plants aren't uniform like a pane of glass, or a brick.  They are free to wave in the wind to support insects and wildlife. The bees hum and the birds fly. The pace of life is different.

Just different.

In response to John Paul
I liked what you wrote.  I live in the countryside of the foothills of the Sierra Nevada's in California.   I too enjoy those unprescribed events.  I've seen a fox and her kits, an owl swoosh down on a snake and many exciting moments which I don't believe could have occurred in city life. 
City life has it's charm, especially for those people in younger stages.  I'm older, 62 seasons and I've learned to count on myself and my plants and animals to get a change of pace. I leave a large portion of my property untended or rather "natural".  I spent Christmas in San Francisco with my daughter and found much there which amazed me.  I loved looking at the various shops which had various manner of stuff like backscratchers, doggie nail trimmers, gas cans, dead ducks upside down (Clement Street), people with tattoos of swatsticka's and Daisey Duck, Mad Max hairdo's.  "Don't stare Mom".  Yes, I now prefer the living out here in the county.
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