I honestly believe over-thinking has got me to this, I understand that for you thinking it thoroughly helps, but to me - it feels like I go in a circle, and yes, death comes, but I do not want that. So my mind plays it again. Hm, I will make a conscious effort to try everything and anything I can to let the person know I care - I should be happy with that. It will be a process, a hard one, but in the end I can only control myself, so for instance seeing a close friend -on his bike- going over 100mph in heavy traffic is terrible, but I can just not let it always be on my mind. Peoples acts, or words, I simply cannot let it rule me. I am an individual with needs as well, and living with my mind being consumed with thoughts of others simply won't work. I want to stress consume, because I understand it is human to think, and care for others, but you need time for yourself, and always time to step away and reflect.Thank you for your thoughts Rhea.