Very tough question! Suppose a person studies law only to go into politics, or studies literature only to become a lawyer, and so on. I feel that in these cases we would accept them getting the most coveted fellowships as they will be using the
tools of one trade in another, and thus helping in the dissemination of techniques between fields.
Is motherhood not a new field? Is whatever she learned really like wearing a nice necklace, saying "I went to Yale" as a kind of flower in her hair, even if only for her own aesthetic appreciation? Or will the baby gain from what she learned? Obviously the baby will gain, but what if 18 years later that baby can't get the fellowship or clerkship they so desire because someone like their own mother got it, only to drop out later?
JPM, you make the valid point that she can't foresee the future and what it brings, which is true, but look at the following case: 2 people are competing for a can of food. One of them is famished while the other a rich person with a lot of food. It's true that the rich person might lose all their money and at some point need this can, but don't we think the hungry person should get it? Of course the way life goes we constantly gather cans we don't need, but that's how our economy operates.
To conclude, on one hand I think everyone constantly behaves in this way on a certain level, but on the other hand, I feel what you're saying Imogen. As long as what is involved are the less prestigious fellowships and schools I don't see a problem, but what about clerking for a supreme court judge? What about getting accepted to any very selective programs?
Of course, one shouldn't confuse this question with the question of whether after working in such clerkship, after benefiting from distinguished fellowships, is it ok to leave the profession if one has a change of hearts, to which my answer is an unequivocal yes.