Let me just say to anyone whose introduction to "The Second Sex" is the sentence William quoted: yes, it's quite a read.
I think one of the interesting things we see in this chapter is just how delicate it is to make an argument from science, that is, from "physical facts".
"
Woman? Very simple, say the fanciers of simple formulas: she is a womb, an
ovary; she is a female – this word is sufficient to define her."
William, you ask if she would find any (physical?) definition derogatory. For me the word "sufficient" is a clue. I would certainly say she thinks it is wrong. The equation of woman with womb is shown to be problematic by running through a litany of other examples of wombs which have qualities very different from those we might find in a human female. Even among humans, at least well-bred ones, we do not consider people who have had hysterectomies "no longer women". I would say that the problem, in particular, is given by the
equation of a person with a part of their anatomy. We certainly believe that humans must have bodies to exist, and yet we would not locate the person in any particular part of his/her body (even the brain, which requires the sense data of the body). Pinning down a physical
location for a person's identity, even if it is intended to be metaphorical, implies that everything about them is mediated by, conditioned on, the functions of that organ; and this is a recipe for disaster. Imagine a race of people whose souls were located in their arms; and a race of people whose souls were located in their stomachs. The human faculty of imagination immediately begins to play at constructing the characters of these unfortunate tribes.
This sentence is particularly important: "
The term ‘female’ is derogatory not because it emphasises woman’s animality, but because it imprisons her in her sex."
On the issue of praying mantises, etc: there is an obvious paradox here, and as Ellen says, a
paradox is usually a sign of something interesting. Namely, why are women portrayed simultaneously as weak and passive, and as archetypically terrible ("
monstrous and swollen termite queens")? Surely at least
one of the two is a lie? Or -- if we take the fear to be a true fear, whether or not it is a true fact -- then what is at stake in perpetuating the mythology of women as weak and passive? For, if there is one thing we learn from this chapter, I think it is that society (our society? SdB's?) does not, exactly, view women as individuals. What it believes of one woman it believes, to some degree or another, to be true or at least potentially true of all women.
Why does sex exist? This is a very
deep question, and a very loaded one. I'll sign off for now, but will think about it. :-)