Thank you Ronald, for raising the flag and Linda for your expressed consciousness.
I agree with Linda's acknowldegment that we have an unsolvable dilemma. I agree with Ronald that capitalism needs to be quickly retired. We have have found the dilemma and it is us. I think that Linda's observation of "anonymity" is crucial to the paradox of ones ability to believe one is humane while simultaneously promoting and ignoring vast realms of cruelty to others. Anonymity is purposefully chosen ignorance of ones accountability. It is more a refusal of ones accountability to the "other" by the self with the reward being greater power and conservation of wealth (time) that otherwise would have to be shared.
Here are a few examples, casually chossen, of aspects of our anonymity: Using an alias, wearing sunglasses in public to avoid eye contact, having unlisted phone numbers, living in gated communities, filtering phone calls with the various available gadets, having our failing parents tended by institutions, giving money to charities but not taking care of the people in visible need on the street before our eyes, incarcerating and institutionalizing people with emotional and psychological problems, are just a few of the approaches we choose to secure our available time, energy, illusions of safety and wealth from the many elements of societys' over whelming needs that we would not tolerat to exist if we lived in a village. If we lived in a village, we would be far more accountable to one another, I believe. Our communities have grown too big for our breaches of civility to one another. Our species' success is our down fall. The irony was recognized long, long ago. We have not improved upon this awareness in recorded history.
The hypocrisy and irony are hard to swallow so we don't like to pay attention, another choice to be anonymous and unaccountable. At least this is how it is for me. I've done and do all the above and far worse and often. It is much easier to get forgiveness from our institutions of absolution than to forgive ourselves (I hope that somewhere within that fraility lies a greater hidden strength). This is a conundrum for mankind for thousands of years and the solution has always only been offered by spiritual advisors and it has always been the same and always abandoned and always ignored. We, as a species, appear to be "stuck" with the failed nature of our species. I suspect it will continue until circumstances or our actions reduce the global communities back into a village (think Aphosis or nuclear weapons). It may be possible that we will eventually expand ourselves into one self-conscious village using technological tools, but I am discouraged to believe in it when I hear the divisive Tea Baggers' rants, and witness corporate America's funding anti-socialistic attacks to forestall public efforts to take care of ourselves, each other and the planet.
We certainly are in a pickle, aren't we?